So, AIESEC. All this working for free, voluntary work. Not really me, if you knew me but I’ve been doing it and enjoying it. Perhaps thats kindness part of human nature, on the cynical side, I wonder why I even bother. I think it’s the recognition I’m chasing and its not there, meanwhile it’s waiting for me in Architecture school. All this and I still feel like an outsider and all my friends would agree with me with the wasting time part. I’ve gain perspectives from inside, it feels like a bloody waste of time trying to climb this ladder. I have my own to climb and it’s not like AIESEC is actually helping me… literally I’ve learnt nothing, I’ve had fun and met some people however my grades would have been a lot more better had I not joined. We make decisions, and we have to realise that it wasn’t really the worth until it’s done. Next semester will be interesting. I think I’m ready to drop this culture, will be difficult though. I am to some extent, brainwashed and addicted. Oh for fuck sakes. Help?
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"All teenagers knew this was true. The process of growing up was nothing more than figuring out what doors hadn’t yet been slammed in your face. For years, parents tell you that you can be anything, have anything, do anything. That was why she’d been so eager to grow up-until she got to adolescence and hit a big fat wall of reality. As it turned out, she couldn’t have anything she wanted. You didn’t get to be pretty or smart or popular just because you wanted it. You didn’t control your own destiny, you were too busy trying to fit in."
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It’s human nature to love and want to be loved. Its an aspect of our humanity that has been analyzed and discussed numerous times but is one of the hardest feelings to decipher.
I think I heard it asked on a beauty pageant ” Would you rather be respected or loved?” Yes, being loved is nice, but respect should come first.
You don’t need everyone to love you. Respect is the best foundation in any relationship, whether its a romantic , between family or friends. You can’t say you love someone unless you know how to respect them. But how do you define respect? Im sure everyone has their of definition of respect, but for me Respect is being considerate of someone else’s feelings, understanding things in their perspective. Putting your own thoughts and biases outside and looking at the big picture. If you understand their feelings, you would be more sensitive in knowing what would hurt or insult them.
Respect with regards to romantic relationships: Starting relationships are a challenge. You have to be able to learn to respect each other in order to know what each other is feeling, getting to know that person and understanding their way of thinking. You cannot say you love that person if you don’t respect them.
Even in relationships, or marriages wherein the feeling of LOVE or being IN LOVE fades away, if the respect for each other stays, it is enough to be able to live without any bitterness . acknowledging each other’s feelings and decisions and coming into terms with the outcome. Those relationships that lack respect are usually the ones who turn bitter in the end.
For example. If you found someone else, Have enough respect to tell that person that you are in love with someone else, rather than cheating on that person.
If you have fallen out of love with someone, have the respect to tell them. You wont leave them hanging or just leave suddenly. It goes hand in hand with EMPATHY. ” Putting yourself in another’s shoes”
Your partner might not be able to accept that fact easily, but have the respect to understand their feelings, give them space if needed. Don’t lead someone on if you have no intention of staying. If the respect remains even if the love is gone, eventually, you will be able to just laugh back at it or recall it peacefully without any guilt.
Bottomline is: You may think you love someone or you may think they love you. But that isn’t enough. Take a step back and think ” does he/she” have respect for me? If the answer is no. Then its time to think.
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The sound of someone chewing and munching with their mouth open irritates me, I’m such a bitch.
